[{"data":1,"prerenderedAt":-1},["ShallowReactive",2],{"detail-JP2025081521400508216":3,"related-JP2025081521400508216":31},{"pageSize":4,"id":5,"productLine":6,"status":7,"articleCode":8,"articleType":9,"showStyle":7,"mediaType":10,"articleTitle":11,"coverImage":12,"listImage":12,"introduction":13,"description":14,"nonVipDescription":15,"postTime":16,"viewTime":16,"sortNumber":17,"isFree":18,"isShowList":7,"isRecommend":18,"linkType":7,"isOriginal":6,"hasMiniUrl":18,"hasAdvertising":18,"createBy":19,"updateBy":19,"createTime":20,"visitCount":21,"isLiked":18,"realSearch":22,"isRead":18,"productId":23,"isCollected":18,"collectCount":7,"vipExclusive":18,"allowComment":7,"style":24,"canCopy":18,"likeCount":25,"seoKeywords":15,"articleModuleVoList":26,"extendContentList":27,"noteCount":28,"categoryList":29,"dailyKeywordList":30},10,7525,"1",1,"JP2025081521400508216","1041018",3,"自由很贵，但我还是付了「定金」","https:\u002F\u002Fimage.jane7.com\u002Fecf650d2-ce63-4528-abb2-70f4b07fe1e2.jpg","先留一块，属于自己的时间和空间","\u003Cdiv>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">大家好，我是简七编辑部的冰冰。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">前几天，我看了一部豆瓣评分8.8的电影——\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan style=\"background-color:rgba(254, 212, 164, 0.8);\">\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">《出走的决心》\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Csection nodeleaf=\"\" style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\n  \u003Cimg src=\"https:\u002F\u002Fimage.jane7.com\u002Fa0fbfac2-f361-4472-827d-777fa229f293.jpg\">\n \u003C\u002Fsection>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;text-align: center;font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan style=\"color:#646a73;font-size: 14px;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">图源：豆瓣\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">影片讲的是一个中年女性在无数身份中，慢慢\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">「消失」\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">又重新找回自己的故事。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">观影过程中，我觉得心口被一下下戳着，直到看完影片，我才发现：\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">原来女主李红就是我的妈妈，\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">是我身边众多女性的缩影。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Csection nodeleaf=\"\" style=\"margin: 0 16px;padding: 0px;\">\n  \u003Cimg alt=\"图片\" src=\"https:\u002F\u002Fimage.jane7.com\u002F066ee24f-ec2e-4d8b-a29f-4234530213e6.jpg\">\n \u003C\u002Fsection>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin: 0px 16px 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;color: rgb(214, 168, 65);\">\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">01\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">女主李红\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan style=\"color:#646a73;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">（咏梅饰）\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">是一个很典型的女性——\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">最开始，她是家里的大女儿，成绩不错能上大学，可是爸爸说「全家靠我一个人养，你就不能分担一下」；她不是没有抗争，\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">只是在传统家庭里，姐姐，注定是一个被牺牲的角色\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Csection nodeleaf=\"\" style=\"text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;margin-top: 0px;\">\n  \u003Cimg src=\"https:\u002F\u002Fimage.jane7.com\u002F91341567-656e-44d5-b737-1124537b2f26.jpg\">\n \u003C\u002Fsection>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;text-align: center;font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan style=\"color:#646a73;font-size: 14px;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">图源：网络\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">李红不得不放弃了学业，早早承担起养家的责任，为了弟弟的前途，配合家里的安排。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">后来，她成为了妻子，即便她不停地做事，丈夫\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan style=\"color:#646a73;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">（姜武饰）\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">却总是没好气地\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">下命令。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">一次，丈夫的亲戚来家里吃饭，\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">男人们大快朵颐，女人却始终没有上桌；\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">丈夫说要好好招待，李红做满满一桌菜，丈夫又说「剩这么多菜，会不会过日子」？\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">李红看见有人抽烟，顺手拿了个烟缸摆上，丈夫数落她不懂事，赶客不自知，下了他的面子。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Csection nodeleaf=\"\" style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\n  \u003Cimg src=\"https:\u002F\u002Fimage.jane7.com\u002Ff4e05458-cf82-4610-b819-c3bb01448a3a.jpg\">\n \u003C\u002Fsection>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;text-align: center;font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan style=\"color:#646a73;font-size: 14px;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">图源：网络\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">丈夫总觉得李红干啥啥不行，而站在李红的视角，丈夫总是鸡蛋里挑骨头，没事也找茬。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">她想过离婚，回了娘家。在李红父母的眼里，\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">男人没打你，就说了两句，这也要离婚？\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">父母问她：\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan style=\"color:#de7802;\">\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">孩子怎么办？\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">李红沉默了，于是日子还得继续熬。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">是啊，李红成为了母亲。再等一等，等到女儿\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan style=\"color:#646a73;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">（吴倩饰）\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">长大。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">十几年后，女儿结婚了也怀孕了，恰逢李红和高中同学在成都的35周年聚会，李红想去，可产检时，医生说女儿是双胎，要提前剖腹产。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Csection nodeleaf=\"\" style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\n  \u003Cimg src=\"https:\u002F\u002Fimage.jane7.com\u002F7fe5320e-193a-49b5-bbcf-5fa48f1a6272.jpg\">\n \u003C\u002Fsection>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;text-align: center;font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan style=\"color:#646a73;font-size: 14px;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">图源：网络\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">女儿的一声\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan style=\"color:#de7802;\">\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">「妈」\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">，李红的脚步又被绊住了。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">女儿说，等生完了，我们一起去成都玩；李红答应了，但她也意识到，\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">等女儿生完孩子，是不是也会面临自己这样的处境？\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Csection nodeleaf=\"\" style=\"margin: 0 16px;padding: 0px;\">\n  \u003Cimg alt=\"图片\" src=\"https:\u002F\u002Fimage.jane7.com\u002Fea12dc18-de34-425e-b867-9131e06d168f.jpg\">\n \u003C\u002Fsection>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin: 0px 16px 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;color: rgb(214, 168, 65);\">\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">02\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">等啊等，等到外孙上了幼儿园。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">李红努力学车、考驾照，打零工、攒钱买车；她被\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan style=\"color:#de7802;\">\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">「困」\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">了三十几年，她太渴望去看看外面的世界了。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Csection nodeleaf=\"\" style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\n  \u003Cimg src=\"https:\u002F\u002Fimage.jane7.com\u002Fd2cdead6-5bf1-4ab0-b2a8-597840e091ae.jpg\">\n \u003C\u002Fsection>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;text-align: center;font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan style=\"color:#646a73;font-size: 14px;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">图源：网络\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">就在李红拿到驾照的当天，女儿失业了——\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">因为李红去学车，女儿不得不请接连假照顾孩子。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">李红心里愧疚，于是又帮着带孩子，让女儿去找工作；日子一天天过，\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">女儿新工作转正，女婿升了经理，丈夫拿了老年活动的奖牌。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">只有李红，在围着灶台转的时光里不知不觉地老去，她突然说出来：\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">你们的事，我不管了，我明天就走。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Csection nodeleaf=\"\" style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\n  \u003Cimg src=\"https:\u002F\u002Fimage.jane7.com\u002F18658463-22c5-4022-ad49-50aaf03d5795.jpg\">\n \u003C\u002Fsection>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;text-align: center;font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan style=\"color:#646a73;font-size: 14px;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">图源：网络\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">她过够了等待的日子——\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan style=\"color:#de7802;\">\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">等着弟弟长大，等着嫁个好男人，等着女儿长大，等着女儿结婚，等着女儿的孩子长大，要等到什么时候？\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">再等下去，永远都走不了。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">一场家庭风波后，李红还是出发了。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">李红去看了山，见了水，几个月后她在旅程中给女儿打电话；女儿说，家里一切都好，孩子爸爸申请了新的业务板块，提成少了，但时间多了，能帮着一起照顾家里。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">李红跟女儿说对不起，女儿跟李红说\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">「我觉得你这样挺棒的」\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">影片结束，心里一下开朗。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">这部片子原本叫《亲爱的妈妈》，后来改成了\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan style=\"background-color:rgba(254, 212, 164, 0.8);\">\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">《出走的决心》\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">；看完影片，了解「为什么要下决心出走」、「下决心的过程是怎么样的」后，更觉得名字改的妙了。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">影片中让我汗毛炸立的两个场景，分别是——\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cblockquote style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;border-left: 2px solid #bbbfc4;color:#646A73;margin-inline-start: 16px;\">\n  \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;font-size: 14px;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">女儿产检时喊了一声\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan style=\"color:#de7802;\">\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">「妈」\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">，李红当即决定留下来；李红被女儿牵绊。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n  \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;font-size: 14px;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">李红出走时，两个小外孙在女儿身后喊了一声\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan style=\"color:#de7802;\">\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">「妈妈」\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">；女儿被外孙牵绊。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003C\u002Fblockquote>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">当我成为妈妈后，才深刻体会了这一声\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">「妈妈」\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">的份量；许多事情，为了孩子，没有办法。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">可真的没有办法吗？也不是，只是我们太习惯让\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">「妈妈去解决」\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">影片最后，女儿并没有牺牲自己全职带娃，而是让女婿换了岗位，外公帮着带娃，这就是不错的解法。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Csection nodeleaf=\"\" style=\"margin: 0 16px;padding: 0px;\">\n  \u003Cimg alt=\"图片\" src=\"https:\u002F\u002Fimage.jane7.com\u002Fcad2f2a7-a4f3-47d7-ab7f-99cbcd5ff923.jpg\">\n \u003C\u002Fsection>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin: 0px 16px 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;color: rgb(214, 168, 65);\">\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">03\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">为什么说，我在李红身上看到了我妈妈的影子呢？\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">李红是被迫在\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">「等待」\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">，而我妈是主动在\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">「等待」\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">我妈是个温柔、懂事、靠谱的好人，可是她的人生脉线里\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan style=\"color:#de7802;\">\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">总在为别人而活\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">；我太了解那些不被明说的\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">「规矩」\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">了——\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cblockquote style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;border-left: 2px solid #bbbfc4;color:#646A73;margin-inline-start: 16px;\">\n  \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;font-size: 14px;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">「女孩子要懂事顾家，别在外面惹事。」\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n  \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;font-size: 14px;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">「结了婚就要以家庭为重。」\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n  \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;font-size: 14px;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">「有了孩子，就要以孩子为先。」\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n  \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;font-size: 14px;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">「多照顾照顾老人，别总想着自己跑出去。」\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003C\u002Fblockquote>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">妈妈在用「牺牲」换取被认可，却忘记了：她可以是自由的。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">影片里有一个画面：李红站在湖边，风很大，浪声一波一波地涌过来。她既没有哭，也没有笑，只是静静地看着远方。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Csection nodeleaf=\"\" style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\n  \u003Cimg src=\"https:\u002F\u002Fimage.jane7.com\u002F9a53b7f3-e849-4a75-90f9-70c71f4d1b67.jpg\">\n \u003C\u002Fsection>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;text-align: center;font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan style=\"color:#646a73;font-size: 14px;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">图源：网络\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">那一刻，我突然明白，自由不是立刻离开，也不是一下子切断所有牵挂；\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan style=\"color:#de7802;\">\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">自由，是你在面对生活的浪潮时，心里不再恐惧。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">你可以选择留下，也可以选择离开——关键是，这个决定，是你自己做的。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">李红的\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">「出走」\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">，是因为她终于明白，如果不先找回自己，她没法再给别人真正的爱。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">而生活里，我们大多数人没法真的「出走」。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">房贷、孩子、父母、工作……一个个都像绳结，把我们牢牢地绑在原地。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">有时，我们甚至不敢去想\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">「如果我离开会怎样」\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">，因为一旦想了，就要面对不被理解、甚至被指责的可能。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">可看着影片里的李红，我意识到一个事实：\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan style=\"color:#de7802;\">\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">改变的难，不在于行动，而在于承认自己需要改变。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">我们不必等到\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">「万事俱备」\u003Cspan style=\"font-weight: normal;\" textstyle=\"\">再\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cspan style=\"font-weight: normal;\" textstyle=\"\">去\u003C\u002Fspan>行动；\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan style=\"color:#de7802;\">\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">哪怕只是每天抽半小时，去做一件你喜欢的事，又何尝不是一种「出走」的方式呢？\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">写到这里，我想对自己说一句，也想对所有看到这篇文章的你说一句：\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">「我们并非生来为了扮演某个角色，我们是带着自己的名字、喜好和灵魂来到这个世界的。」\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">你可以是母亲、妻子、女儿，但在这些身份之外，你首先是你自己。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cstrong>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">当你有勇气面对改变，面对新的生活，任何事都无法再困住你。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fstrong>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n \u003Cp style=\"margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);visibility: visible;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;\">\u003Cspan leaf=\"\">晚安。\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003Cspan leaf=\"\" style=\"-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;\">\u003Cbr>\u003C\u002Fspan>\u003C\u002Fp>\n\u003C\u002Fdiv>","","2025-08-15 21:38:00",100,0,"py自动生成","2025-08-15 21:40:05",42,false,17602,"1038002",4,[],[],2,[],[],[]]